What a failed past relationship has to do with your fertility

Remember that relationship where you were devastated when it ended because you thought that person was “the one“? The one where you worked hard to stay together because you thought at the time it was meant to be?

If you had held onto that person, would you have met the love of your life? Would you now be with someone you’re hoping your baby will take after?

I ask this because we’ve all been there and, when we look back, we see how things had to go down exactly as they did for them to work out as they have now. 

So…what if everything IS working out on your fertility journey? I know you wanted to be pregnant last month and it’s not frustrating to get your hopes up and then get your period. But what if it’s possible there are factors at play that are working FOR you even when it seems like they’re not? Just like that old relationship you wouldn’t go back to now if someone paid you $100K.

It can be so hard to trust that things are working out as they’re supposed to when we can’t see into the future. 

I’m here to remind you your job is to keep your eye on that future and trust that it’s on its way BEFORE it happens, that the path there lies in spending your time in the feeling of that future NOW. 

Try this to put it into practice (and then comment below w/your questions/observations):

1. Open the Notes app on your phone or grab a sheet of paper and write down 5 things you’re looking forward to about being pregnant and/or having a baby

2. For each, identify the emotion you’re looking forward to experiencing

3. Lastly, ask yourself: how can I experience those emotions in my life (exactly as it) TODAY?

(P.S. My private Conception Accelerator Coaching program supports you in going deep in the trust and releasing what gets in the way of staying there – set up a free Strategy Session if you want to empower yourself with a proven framework to get your positive pregnancy test.)